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The Trap That Is Killing Gay Men(Kito)

Igbo, Queer, and Unfiltered
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I'm discussing Kito this week. The practice of luring, trapping and extorting gay men in Africa using fake dating profiles. It is one of the most urgent crises facing gay men in Africa, and it does not get nearly enough attention. I cover what kito is, who is behind it, why the law makes it almost impossible for victims to speak up and practical steps you can take to protect yourself. If you are a gay man this episode could save your life. Share it with someone who needs to hear it. Stay Connected Welcome to myownkindofrunway, a place for unapologetic conversations, fashion, and queer joy. Watch more videos: https://youtube.com/channel/UC9jWWJwF_KzrY14FR9DXO4A https://youtube.com/@igboqueerandunfilteredpod?si=0GZV68iNaWT5BumS Visit my website: www.myownkindofrunway.com Listen to my podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5EjOLr2ilFBqhaXkoTK72a Instagram: https://instagram.com/myownkindofrunway?igshid=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLDqhBft/ Shop My Looks: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/myownkindofrunway https://shopmy.us/myownkindofrunway https://linktr.ee/myownkindofrunway Join My Newsletter: https://unfiltered.myownkindofrunway.com/ Let’s Talk

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