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11. My Father Wasn't Safe - But God Was: Trusting Again After a Father Wound

Bounce Back, Black Woman! | Healing, Personal Growth, & Resilience
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This episode may feel tender. If June stirred up old grief or silence for you because of a complicated or painful relationship with your father, this space is for you. In today’s solo reflection, I share a deeply personal part of my story — the impact of growing up with a father who wasn’t emotionally or physically safe, and how that experience shaped my relationship with trust, with love, and with God. We’ll walk through: What it means to rebuild trust with God Why spiritual re-parenting matters The truth that your value is not determined by someone else’s brokenness You’ll also hear scripture reflections, a powerful journal prompt, and a reminder: You didn’t deserve the pain — but you do deserve the healing. 📖 Referenced Verses: Psalm 27:10 Isaiah 64:8 (if you included it) Zephaniah 3:17 Optional: Hebrews 12:10 (if mentioned or referenced) 🖊️ Journal Prompt: Where in my life have I confused God’s character with the failures of a parent or caregiver? What truth do I need to replace that with?

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