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He Saw Me At My WORST - Bald, Broken, Fighting Cancer… And Still Asked Me To Marry Him

Unbroken Podcast with Richard Akita
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She was bald, broken, and fighting for her life. He saw all of it and still asked her to marry him. In this deeply moving episode of Unbroken Podcast, host Richard Akita sits down with Christy Trina, breast cancer survivor, advocate, and homemaker, for a conversation that will redefine what you think you know about love, commitment, and what marriage vows really mean when tested by fire. Trina opens up about the day she was diagnosed with breast cancer at 36, the moment she called a man she barely knew because he seemed to understand what she was going through, and how she moved in with him for treatment without even knowing he was a doctor. She reveals the steroids that made her unrecognizable, the nights she couldn't sleep, the moment she looked in the mirror and asked if she'd ever come back to herself, and his response that changed everything. She also shares the painful decision to have a total hysterectomy, how she mourned her unborn children by writing them letters, and why she believes crying is a form of prayer. This isn't just a cancer survival story. It's a masterclass in vulnerability, self love, and what it means to be loved at your absolute lowest. Trina breaks down why she never wore a wig, how she learned that caregivers carry invisible scars too, and the one thing her husband asked for in their marriage that most people overlook. She also explains why she believes everything happens for a reason, how her father's words about finding someone who will cry with you suddenly made sense, and why she wouldn't change a single thing about her journey even if she could. If you're facing illness, supporting someone who is, or wondering whether love can truly survive the worst, this conversation will give you hope, clarity, and a roadmap you won't find anywhere else. Guest: Christy Trina ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎙️ ABOUT THE HOST Mr Richard Akita is a multifaceted relationship and life coach, author, entrepreneur, and corporate trainer with over 30–35 years of experience in management and personal development. IG: https://www.instagram.com/akitarichard/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🎧 ABOUT UNBROKEN PODCAST Unbroken Podcast is where stories meet truth. Hosted by Richard Akita, the show brings together thinkers, builders, healers, and disruptors to have the conversations most people are afraid to have about love, faith, identity, money, family, and the journey to becoming whole. Welcome to the new home of unfiltered wisdom. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 🔔 SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss the next episode 👍 LIKE if this conversation challenged you 📤 SHARE with someone who NEEDS to hear this

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