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I Was Bullied For Being Myself | Legally Clueless Ep 385

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I Chose Myself Every Time | Jony The Hairdresser (Part 1) Many know Jony The Hairdresser as the celebrity hairstylist behind some of Kenya's biggest names. Others know him as the hilarious Sister Nancy and Brother Bernard from social media. But before any of that, he was a little boy from Naivasha trying to understand why simply being himself made him a target. In Part One of Jony's story, he takes us back to his childhood, growing up in a home where he felt accepted, navigating school as a feminine young boy, surviving relentless bullying, and the violent attack in high school that changed his life forever. He also shares why he made the unexpected decision to turn down university and pursue hairdressing instead, a choice that would eventually shape the rest of his life.In this episode, we cover: Growing up in Naivasha and embracing his identity from a young ageFinding acceptance at home while navigating judgment outside itHow excelling in school became a form of protectionThe emotional and psychological impact of bullying in high schoolSurviving a violent mob attack just before sitting his KCSE examsWhy he never told his family what had really happenedProcessing failure after KCSEWalking away from Strathmore University despite being admittedChoosing hairdressing over a conventional career pathHis first experiences training as a hairstylistLanding his first salon job and learning difficult lessons early in his careerUpcoming Wellness Talk Divorce Care: When the Marriage Ends, Finding Yourself Again  Divorce is rarely just the end of a marriage. It can also mean grieving the future you imagined, rebuilding your identity, navigating family dynamics, finding community again, and learning how to move forward with hope.Join us on 25th July for a virtual Wellness Talk with accredited psychologist Faith Guchu as we unpack: The grief nobody talks aboutRebuilding your identityHealing before the next chapterRebuilding your villageCo-parenting and new family realitiesCreating a life you genuinely love againGet your ticket here: legallycluelessafrica.hustlesasa.shop/products/6a3e9f14658513739e5d9e0f Connect With Jony The Hairdresser Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonyhairandmakeup/ For bookings: 0705808139 Studio: Viking House Waiyaki way ,second floor ,room2 Share Your Story Have a story you'd like to share on Legally Clueless? Submit it here: https://forms.gle/JMrQD55jcrazKFKX7 Follow Legally Clueless Africa Newsletter: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafrica YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LegallyCluelessAfrica Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/legallycluelessafrica  If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your shares help these stories reach the people who need them most, and we truly appreciate every one of them.

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